Finding strength in adversity
From diagnosis to remission
Ashwin Ramlotchan
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WHEN Ashwin Ramlotchan was informed of his cancer diagnosis in 2018, he said it felt as if his "whole world was at a standstill".
"I was shocked as I didn't think I would be one of the people who would get cancer. I just couldn't believe it. My family also took it badly. My wife, Amitha, who is a nurse, was devastated.
"We had hoped that after all the tests, the results would come out clear since there was no history of cancer in my family. Even after we heard the results, we hoped God would help us," said Ramlotchan, 60, of Phoenix.
Now retired, Ramlotchan was the head of security for a property business.
He said he was fortunate that it was the early stages of stomach cancer.
“The worst thing was the fear of dying and not being able to spend the rest of my days with my family and loved ones. I underwent chemotherapy and then had a partial gastrectomy. I then had to have chemotherapy again after the surgery.
"During my cancer journey, I was always sick and unable to meet my daily basic needs. My wife took on a lot of responsibilities. She used to leave work early to take me to chemo, wait with me, drop me off at home, and then return to work.
“It was a difficult time. I was depressed but my family encouraged and supported me. I was constantly sick and could not do what I wanted to. The cancer and treatment drained me. But I had the love and support of my family, who assisted me with everything I needed to get through this time."
In 2019, Ramlotchan’s cancer went into remission.
“My family and I were excited and grateful. The news lifted a huge weight off my shoulders. Since then, I go for annual check-ups to see if everything is in order.”
Ramlotchan said he always tried to help others diagnosed with cancer, by motivating them to fight "because I know what I have been through".
“I use my experience and journey to show them that cancer can be beaten. Remember that you can fight this. With God all things are possible, so keep an open and positive mind. God is always your strength and courage during your lowest,” said Ramlotchan.