Siya Kolisi and his father, who is affectionately known as Bhut Fay.
Image: Instagram.
Springbok captain and Sharks player Siya Kolisi recently shared heart-warming moments of connection with his father, Fezakele Kolisi, affectionately known as Bhut Fay, and his ten-year-old son, Nicholas.
In a series of touching Instagram posts, the rugby star offered a glimpse into his life off the pitch, showcasing the importance of family amid personal challenges.
Following the Sharks' match this past weekend, the father-and-son duo enjoyed quality time at Siya's Ballito home.
In a light-hearted clip, Siya playfully captured his father enjoying music from American R&B legend Mary J. Blige, teasing him about his taste in track selections.
Bhut Fay, clearly enjoying the moment, confidently identified the artist with a twist that brought a smile: “Ngu Mary J Braj lo" (this is Mary J Blige)."
The social media posts not only highlight their relationship but also feature Siya and Bhut Fay in matching Sharks jerseys.
In his book, "Rise", Siya has candidly shared his struggles growing up in Port Elizabeth under the care of his grandmother after losing his mother at just 15 years old.
His relationship with his father was far from ideal during those years, but Siya has openly voiced his desire to mend their bond.
He has spoken passionately about breaking harmful cycles within black families, particularly regarding excessive drinking and prioritising healthy relationships.
“He bought me a house last year in March in Bluewater Bay, next to the sea,” Bhut Fay once said in an interview, reflecting the meaningful steps Siya has taken to restore their relationship.
The joys of fatherhood extend further as Siya also shared delightful moments with his son, Nicholas, demonstrating the legacy of rugby being lovingly passed down.
Whether they are playing in the rain or enjoying fresh haircuts, the pictures depict a tender relationship where Nicholas shows promising talent akin to his father.
However, amid these joyful family interactions, Siya’s personal life remains in focus, particularly regarding recent news concerning his estranged wife, Rachel Kolisi.
She has filed a complaint with the Commission for Conciliation, Mediation and Arbitration (CCMA), alleging unfair treatment during her tenure as CEO of the Kolisi Foundation, subsequently seeking either compensation or reinstatement.
The couple's split, announced in October 2024, followed a mutual decision that emerged from their mutual love and respect for each other as they endeavoured to navigate their separation.
Since then, both Siya and Rachel have chosen to maintain a level of privacy regarding their marital issues, with Siya focusing on family life and Rachel engaging in activities with their children.