Ribbons of connection and love
Durban — Ribbons of Love is an ode to the heart.
Dr Elizabeth Peter-Ross has dedicated her latest book to love and lovers, but it transcends literature: it’s a book where words and art form a beautiful union to complete each other.
The medical doctor and theologian says her book of marriage themes, blessings and art was inspired by the need of many couples to personalise their marriage celebration with unique rather than traditional vows.
Together with artist Annie Kruyer, the two have created a symphony of words, colours and emotions that tug at the heart. Each picture, each blessing, is a work of art and would look beautiful in a frame.
“The blessings give voice and expression to the core aspects of marriage common to all people whatever their nationality, creed, race or sexual orientation.
“The blessings emphasise the sacred element of their covenantal bond. These are conveyed largely by metaphors drawn from nature and cover those qualities and behaviours that make for an enduring marriage,” writes Peter-Ross.
Small enough to fit into a handbag and big enough to fill your heart, the book is composed of 25 themes, blessings and artworks that traverse everything that is sacred in a bond of love: celebration, commitment, creation, splendour, roots, faithfulness, illumination, protection, courage, heritage, nurture, covenant, home, haven, family, respect, trust, loyalty, gratitude, passion, intimacy, friendship, tranquillity, peace and blessing.
Peter-Ross says because ribbons have long been used to symbolise different human emotions and values, in this book different ribbons of love symbolise the varied aspects of enduring love.
“The interweaving of the ribbons seems to capture the joy and happiness of the day of celebration. Together, the ribbons augmented by the words of the blessings and the glowing colour and form of the illustrations suggest both the beauty and gravity of this avowal of lifelong love and the mystic transformative power of this moment.”
Ribbons of love: A Book of Marriage Themes, Blessings and Art is published by Healing Prayer Press, distributed and marketed by Blue Weaver and Helco Promotions. Designed by artist Karen Adamson, it retails for R250.
COMMITMENT
May this soul-gathering
Of family and friends, from near and afar
Pledge support for this sacred commitment
And offer gifts of truth and understanding,
Steadfastness and discernment.
May the witnesses
Of this binding be blessed.
PASSION
May your touch and kiss
Meet your heart’s longing.
And may the angels of heaven
Dance between you,
As you serve each other.
May your giving and receiving
Bring joy and surprise.
HOME
May you build a home
Together creating a sanctuary,
Amidst the tensions of your lives.
And may your love be written
On the signpost of a welcoming door.
May your faith and dreams
Enter and always remain.
RESPECT
May wisdom and knowledge fill you
So your words touch each other
With reverence and respect.
And may you be drawn towards each other
Gently and kindly.
May your tender embrace
Hold a rainbow of hope.
Independent on Saturday