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Honouring elders is a daily commitment

Love and connection

Dhayalan Moodley|Published

We must encourage visiting elders in care facilities and homes, which can significantly impact their mental and emotional well-being, says the writer.

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WHILE many people have already celebrated Mother's Day and Father’s Day will be on June 15, I  always choose to honour my mum and elders every day of my life.

To me that is special.

Some people find that dedicating a specific day to mothers and fathers can be meaningful, as it allows them to express gratitude and appreciation for the love and care they received. Sadly, elders who are in care homes or living alone often experience feelings of loneliness and disconnection from their loved ones.

We must encourage visiting elders in care facilities and homes, which can significantly impact their mental and emotional well-being. Interacting with them can be a truly enriching experience and blessing. It also provides an opportunity to demonstrate respect and appreciation for their contributions and sacrifices.

Even small interactions such as conversations or shared activities can bring joy and comfort to those who may be feeling isolated. In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in our busy lives and forget to connect with the elderly around us. They have a wealth of experience, wisdom and stories to share.

Sometimes, all it takes is a little time and attention to make a big difference in their lives. Ultimately every day can be an opportunity also to show appreciation and love for mothers and mother figures. Whether you celebrate on a specific day or every day what matters most is expressing gratitude and kindness to your parents. Remember your mother is your first, best and forever friend.

"God can't be everywhere and therefore he made mothers." - Rudyard Kipling.

 

DHAYALAN MOODLEY

Mobeni Heights

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