It is time for us to honour our mum and mother figures every day of our lives.
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MOTHER’S Day is done and dusted on May 10. Restaurants, parks and even the cemeteries were full to capacity. The flower sellers did a roaring business, selling fresh flowers for the graves, and the majority will be seen the same time next year.
We need to stop this one-day charade, which to me this is a fake show.
It is time for us to honour our mum and mother figures every day of our lives. To me that is special. Some people find that dedicating a specific day to mothers can be meaningful, as it allows them to express gratitude and appreciation for the love and care they received.
Sadly, elderly mothers who are in care homes or living alone often experience feelings of loneliness and disconnection from their loved ones.
We must encourage visiting mothers in care facilities and homes which can significantly impact their mental and emotional well-being.
Interacting with them can be a truly enriching experience and blessing. It also provides an opportunity to demonstrate respect and appreciation for their contributions and sacrifices.
Even small interactions such as conversations or shared activities can bring joy and comfort to those who may be feeling isolated. In today's fast-paced world, it is easy to get caught up in our busy lives and forget to connect with the elderly around us.
They have a wealth of experience, wisdom and stories to share. Sometimes, all it takes is a little time and attention to make a big difference in their lives. Ultimately every day can be an opportunity to show appreciation and love for mothers and mother figures. Whether you celebrate on a specific day or every day, what matters most is expressing gratitude and kindness to your mother. Remember a mother is your first friend, your best friend and your forever friend.
The quote of the famous Rudyard Kipling, "God can't be everywhere and therefore he made mothers", is so true.
DHAYALAN MOODLEY
Mobeni Heights
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