Akram said there were several factors that contributed to a couple opting for a divorce.

“Economic stress such as financial pressures, especially in tough economic times can cause strain on relationships. There is also the post-Covid 19 impact as many couples, who stayed together due to circumstances during the pandemic are now choosing to separate. In addition, due to changing social norms, divorce is becoming more socially accepted, leading more individuals to leave unhappy marriages rather than stay for societal reasons.

“Among other factors issues, include infidelity. Extramarital affairs remain one of the leading causes of divorce. There is also the lack of communication. When couples stop communicating effectively, it often leads to emotional detachment and misunderstandings.

“Domestic violence and emotional or financial abuse are serious issues that often lead to divorce proceedings. Many couples also find that over time, they have grown apart and no longer share the same values, goals, or vision for the future,” she said.

Akram added that many couples often decided to reconcile.

“Many couples initiate divorce proceedings in the heat of the moment, only to reconsider after seeking counselling or attempting reconciliation. However, in some cases, despite their efforts, they find that their differences remain unresolved, and they eventually proceed with the divorce. As legal professionals, we always encourage clients to carefully consider their options before making such a life-changing decision.”

Vanie Govender said she dealt with at least three divorce cases a month.

“The number of cases is steadily rising. Parties are learning to stand up for their rights and not be stuck in an abusive or loveless marriage, or where they are not respected and treated as equals.”

She said some of the reasons for a divorce was due to selfishness and lack of understanding of their spouse’s needs.

“Very often even children come in between parents and drive them apart.”

Govender said there was often reconciliation.

“I counsel my clients and contact the other party if not represented by an attorney. Very often there is a reconciliation.”

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Why more couples are choosing divorce before the 10-year mark